There are three MClets running around MCPD. They are wonderful and I love them beyond my ability to articulate the fullness therein. They are not, however, without challenges. Being a parent is the most difficult (and dangerous) job in the world.
I’ve lost count of the number of times I’ve raised my voice to prevent seemingly imminent danger. Whether they are teetering from a precipice and nearly falling to their doom (read: standing on a chair) or charging into the street without regard for potential hazards (read: vehicles that massively outweigh them), simply rising to the challenge of keeping them alive and relatively unscathed is not for the faint of heart.
Consequently, when I see stories and statistics of yet another defenseless and vulnerable child left in a hot car, I basically lose my shit.
Disclaimer: This one is going to sound harsh to some. To that, I say, “Perfect.” Maybe my seeming insensitivity will be on your mind when you arrive at your destination and remember your kid is in the car and you don’t leave him or her to die.
I’ve recently seen a few videos on-line where grown adults will sit in a vehicle with the doors closed, the car off, and the windows up to demonstrate the dangers. On the surface, I get the sentiment behind it. On the other hand, I can’t help but think of the lunacy of the apparent necessity of such a video.
Hey, I know heroin will end up killing you, but don’t expect to have me upload a video of me slamming junk to make the point.
But, I digress.
Recently, the Santa Clara County District Attorney’s office decided not to file charges against a father that left his 9-month-old son in a car all day. You can read the details here.
Initially, I was pretty pissed off at the decision. But the DA made the right call.
PC 273a. (Specific to CA, mind you. And on a side note, 30 states in this country of ours don’t have any laws at all regarding leaving children in an unattended vehicle.)
Notice the key word “willfully”. The father was allegedly “exhausted” after getting only four hours of sleep. He forgot that he hadn’t dropped off his son at day care. He didn’t willfully leave his son in the car. Thus, no charges because there was no intent.
But his child is still dead…the victim of heatstroke (if not negligence).
I’m sure there’s more to the tale and what appears above is only the Cliff’s Notes of the Reader’s Digest of what happened. I have no doubt that the Santa Clara DA’s office spent a lot of time talking about every aspect of the case. Let’s assume they made the right call based on current law.
Real quick, let’s look at some statistics surrounding this issue:
- Total number of U.S. heatstroke deaths of children left in cars, 2014: 20
- Total number of U.S. heatstroke deaths of children left in cars, 2013: 44
- Total number of U.S. heatstroke deaths of children left in cars, 1998-present: 626
- Average number of U.S. child heatstroke fatalities per year since 1998: 38
(Stats obtained from ggweather.com)
Something else to keep in mind, of those stats listed above, only 49% had charges filed.
Now, I’m obviously no lawyer. But, I am a dad. You know what I’ve never done?
Left my kid in a car for hours on a hot day. I can’t even conceptualize it.
I’ve worked back-to-back 18-hour shifts. I’ve been drop dead tired. I’ve felt like a walking zombie. I’ve had sleepless nights. But, if I step away from my computer and look in the other room, you know what I’ll see?
Three beautiful MClets. All alive and well.
So, what do we do?
Is it time to write a new law that removes the “willfully” part of PC 273a? Should a law be enacted that specifically address leaving kids unattended during times of extreme weather (be it hot or cold)?
Listen, I get that it’s been deemed a tragic accident and this man has to live with this knowledge forever. Is that enough? Is his “mistake” enough to stop this completely preventable death from continuing to occur?
I’d say it isn’t.
The Santa Clara County DA announced their decision on Monday, July 28, 2014. On August 1, 2014, an 11-month-old in Utah died. From being left in a hot car. As of this writing, the investigation is ongoing and no charges have yet to be filed.
Question: What do you think is the solution to this terrible trend? You can leave a comment by clicking here.
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